On this Mother's Day, I want to thank you for some very important lessons you've taught me over the past three years.
1) Patience, patience and more patience.
You both know how to push my buttons - Andrew by shouting and singing heavy metal at the dinner table and Alexander by throwing his milk over and over at every meal. I mean, how many times can Alexander climb the stairs or can Andrew say, "why... but why?" At least Andrew, you will call me out by saying "Mom, just stop freaking out."
2) A clean, organized house isn't always the best.
Grandma Nana always has kept a VERY clean house. I often get embarrassed when we have company because our house is less than tidy most of the time. I think right now there are toys in every room of our house - even though they are supposed to stay in the toy room! You've taught me that cleaning can take precious time away you. And while I still prefer things to be picked up, I don't waste time worrying about what our house could look like. There will be plenty of time for you to help someday Alexander, since your brother already is a BIG helper!
3) Worrying is fruitless.
This is one lesson I still struggle with, but my experiences with you both help me remember not to worry over the things I can't control. This helps me enjoy our time together in the then and now, instead of worrying what could happen or what's going to happen. How can I worry with your smiles!
4) Words are very meaningful, but so are actions.
Andrew, you've never had any issue expressing yourself. Everyday I'm impressed with your vocabulary and catch phrases. Even today you told me, "nice save Mom," as I prevented Alex from throwing his shoes in the toilet. Alexander, you are a miniature man of very few words right now, but there is nothing better than when you reach up to me to ask for a hug and a cuddle. Someday you will talk just as much as your brother, but you have taught me that showing your love is just as great as telling.
5) I coudn't love you more.
I felt the deepest love I have ever known when each of you was born. And that love grows every single day. Not only for you two, but especially for your father. I never knew I could love someone so much as I do him. When he giggles over something you do, or talks about how cute you are, or smothers you in hugs and kisses - each day he expresses his love for you both. Through his expression, my love for him multiplies. You have brought out this great love in us.
6) The happiest moments are unplanned.
Once I became a mother, I learned there were so many things that we couldn't plan - especially with your early arrival Alexander. We had to take each day, even each moment, one at a time and cherish it. This has made me relish the small moments we get to spend together. You've taught me there is nothing better than nosy kisses, craziness at dinner, donut Saturdays, shooting hoops, splashing at bath time, telling stories before bed, forts, long walks in the double stroller, tickling, singing songs... the list goes on and on!
You are the best boys for me and I couldn't love you more!
Love,
Your Mom
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